How To Give A Woman An Orgasm
One of the most mysterious things you will ever have to deal with as a man is how to give a woman an orgasm. The orgasm is an elusive beast, sometimes never appearing, other times appearing plenty and still more times taking multiple painstaking hours to find. These tips might not work on all women, because sometimes you literally cannot give a particular woman an orgasm, but they should make you popular in the bedroom nevertheless.
- Ask her whether she orgasms from clitoral, vaginal or stimulation of both areas. Some ladies prefer one, some prefer the other and some go for both. It really just depends and it's not going to lose you any man points to ask before you stick it in her.
- Use fingers, sex toys and tongue where appropriate. A combination of sensations and stimulation will get her in the perfect mode for some orgasm inducing loving. You might think intercourse is the end all be all of sensations, but if that was the case then why don't you go ahead and give up getting blowjobs. No? Well that's the point.
- Experiment with positions. A slight change in position could mean a big change in orgasm intensity. It mostly depends on her particular physiology and your length and girth. Some ladies like it better from behind, others enjoy on top and others want to twist you up in a pretzel and have their dirty way with you.
- Get a little (or a lot) kinky. Now you probably don't want to try this out until you know your lady well, because whipping out the paddles and handcuffs on the first sex session is a bit much for most ladies. You can add spice in your bedroom routines with light role-playing, bondage and spanking to see if that gets her going better than the vanilla sex routine.